6 Ways To Earn Respect Fast As A New Manager
Six practical actions for building credibility and earning your team’s respect in your first weeks as a manager.

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The main idea
Build trust and credibility through how you work with your team in the first weeks of a management role.
Key takeaways
- Observe the work and ask people about pain points before reorganizing how the team operates.
- Make weekly or biweekly one-on-ones a dependable conversation about the person, rather than another status meeting.
- Delegate outcomes and give people room to own the work instead of continuing to carry the individual contributor workload.
- Help remove the blockers the team cannot remove alone, and explain the purpose behind changes and priorities.
- Make expectations clear and deal with performance problems early rather than leaving the team to carry them.
- Invite feedback on yourself and show the team that their perspective can influence how you lead.
Episode breakdown
0:00 Earn respect in your first weeks ↗
Six practical actions build credibility with a new team, followed by two additional tips for engineering leaders.
0:41 Listen before changing the team ↗
Observe the work and ask people about pain points before reorganizing how the team operates.
2:34 Protect regular one-on-ones ↗
Make weekly or biweekly one-on-ones a dependable conversation about the person, rather than another status meeting.
3:49 Stop doing your old job ↗
Delegate outcomes and give people room to own the work instead of continuing to carry the individual contributor workload.
5:33 Advocate upward and translate downward ↗
Help remove the blockers the team cannot remove alone, and explain the purpose behind changes and priorities.
6:38 Address performance directly ↗
Make expectations clear and deal with performance problems early rather than leaving the team to carry them.
8:03 Ask for feedback on your leadership ↗
Invite feedback on yourself and show the team that their perspective can influence how you lead.
9:32 Stay technically fluent ↗
Understand the team’s technical work while keeping yourself off the critical path for delivery.
11:03 Experience the delivery process ↗
Take one small change through the real pipeline to understand the friction your engineers encounter.